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JEALOUSY and HATE .....जलन और नफ़रत

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Hello ,  In my last post ,we had a discussion about anger and joy . Today i m going to talk about the most common feelings which everyone have " JEALOUSY and HATE ".             हम सब में से शायद ही ऐसे कुछ लोग होगें जिसे इसका अनुभव ना हो। हम सबको गुस्सा आता हैं , जलन होती हैं ,और जो चीजें हमें पसंद नही होती उससॆ नफ़रत भी हो ती हैं। Its very Common ,हो ना भी चाहिए  becuse we are human beings and its means we are live people's not dead. Question is how we manage all this, which is very much important and necessary. I will give you some example.. 1. Everyone have their seniors in office and i know nobuddy like them becuse they give you orders , instructions..... etc            I know its a feeling of jealousy and hate . I suggest you just think one day you will also senior and you have same responsibility which now your seniors had, try to motivate yourself to become better and a bigger as compare to him. ...

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE..... feelings, joy , anger , jealousy and hate

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Hello ,  Today i am going to talk you about "FEELINGS " its a major application to become a emotional intelligence.                We are normal human being and we have normal feelings to like joy , anger jealousy and hate ....etc JOY खुशी - हम सभी की लाइफ में कुछ पल हो ते हैं ,जो हमें खुशी देते हैं। like... In this world everyone have a different sense of joy ,like Spending time with friends , shopping , playing your game ,  some people like eating  ....etc           Actually we dont want to manage this feeling only one thing which always take keep in mind ....is आपकी खुशी किसी के दुख का कारण नही होना चाहिए . ANGER गुस्सा ,कोृध - " FAILURE  " हमे वो चीज नहीं मिलना जो हम चाहते हैं , like negative response , teasing , accident , bad language all things stimulat anger.                Its a major area where we have to work. I know its not easy be...

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE...... To control your emotion as well as others.

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Hello, Long time ,how are you all?               Today i am going to talk about emotional intelligence. I know its not easy to tackle but we have to.....even many time i can not do the same thing. In a simple manner i can say its a fight between mind and heart (दिमाग और दिल की लडाई ) most of the time we all are facing..... its endless. So what we can do .....just make youself capable to fight with them or adopt them. In technical language  " EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE is a combination of inter - personal intelligence and intra-personal intelligence."       In  inter- personal intelligence deals with the ability to understand other people's (दुसरो की problems को समझना)       In intra- personal intelligence  is the ability to understand our own feelings and behavior. खुद को समझना जो शायद सबसे मुश्किल  होता हैं। 5 things which make you EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.. 1. SELF -AWARENESS.... ...

Proud to be a WOMEN....Happy WOMEN's DAY

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Hello, Happy women's day....         "Feel proud to be a women" आपका औरत होना ,आपकी कमजोरी नही ताकत हैं। I just want to say all of you please            Respect women चाहे वो आपकी मां हो, बहन हो ,बेटी हो या आपकी बहु हो। Because she have the blessing to give birth to a new life.         We all believe in god but when its comes for women's respect .....?  भगवान शिव ने अपनी पत्नी को अपना आधा भाग कहा ओर माना भी ,फिर भी आज औरतों को अपने लिए इज्जत नही मिलती।     Today women's crossed all the lines of success.  Kalpna chawla, sunita Williams , pratibha patil , sakshi malik , p.v sindhu , kiran bedi or i can A HOUSE WIFE'S. I salute to all working womens but yes a more big salute to all house wife's .....जो अपनी लाइफ में बहुत कुछ बन सकती थी पर सिर्फ इसिलए नही बन पायी ...becuse she gave more importance to her family... Its a big sacrifice which men can not did..   ...

Barrier of TIME MANAGEMENT.....

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Hello, In my last post , i described about some important fact about time management. Today i am going to tell you about blocks and barrier of time management ,which is created by us.         1. LIKE and DISLIKE     People have tendency to do things which they like instead of those things which are IMPORTANT.           So keep separate your personal like and dislike and focus on the important activity which is necessary. 2. WEAK INTERESTS IN LIFE      Weak interests in life , it produce weak personalities and poor time managers. We had many problems in our life but keep try to solve them and be hopefull. 3. A LACK OF DISCIPLINE     Its true without discipline we can not achieve success.          Just for an example... In our nature The sun , The moon , Flowers  Day and night , seasons  these all follow a schedule. So just like that try to make yourse...

IMPORTANT FACTS ABOUT TIME MANAGEMENT.....

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Hello, How are you all ? Well today i m going to tell you some important facts about time management. In this world ,we all have the equal amount of time ,weather the person is The Prime minister, The Business Tycoon , A Superstar or even The Poor man on the roadside .             We all have same amount of time each day .1440 minutes... I want to ask 1 question ... Why does the business tycoon earn so much and the poor man on the roadside almost nothing ? The answer is that the businessman is doing business in his time of 1440 minutes while the poor man is not putting his time to productive use and there fore is in his poor situation. I understand their is so many other factors are also their for the success...                              But Time is most important factors and we all should know how to deal with it,            Beca...

समय ....TIME ......Management....... Activities....TIME is MONEY so value this.

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Hello,                           Today i am talking about the most pricious thing is" TIME". Time and Tide wait for none.   समय और लहरें किसी का इतंज़ार नही करती हैं। Always value your time becuse once its gone ,its never come back. You can not manage your time becuse its limited but you can manage your activities According to your time . So always keep in mind . Good time managers are people who are always on time. They do things on time and are respected and promoted to the best positions in life.              To manage your activities ,you can use following ... * Make time table according to your activities. * Use diaries and do planning for next day always in advance. * You can set reminder on mobile .                 Value your time its a most pricious. Its a big topic ,we will discuss in our next session. Just sp...