CONTROL YOUR THOUGHT THAN ONLY YOU LEARN TO CONTROL YOUR BEHAVIOUR

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hello ,

 how are you all , hopefully all good . well today i am talking about thoughts ,feelings like anger ,love, hate, happiness , sadness etc.
            As you all know that our behavior is really depends on our thought process , if we can not control our thought , we can not control our behavior in front of others.


like for an example...
                         औफिस में अगर बॉस ने कुछ ऐसा कह दिया जो हमे अच्छा नहीं  लगा लेकिन हम कुछ कर नहीं सकते , सिर्फ सॉरी कहकर जा सकते हे , भले मन में कुछ भी कह रहे हो , और हमे यही करना भी चाहिए।
पर में आपसे यह कहना चाहती हु कोई हमारे काम को अच्छा न बोले हमे गुस्सा आता हे , स्वभाविक हे आना भी चाहिए ,लेकिन बॉस को गालिया देने से अच्छा , एक बार बैठकर सोचे शायद वो सही बोल रहा हो , शायद इसमें और अच्छा काम हो सकता हे ,वो आपसे सीनियर हे क्युकी उसे आपसे कुछ जायदा नॉलेज हे , सो उसकी बातो को फॉलो करके आपका काम और अच्छा होता हे तो इसमें क्या बुराई हे ,
                      और मेरा ये मानना हमेशा अपने से जायदा होशियार लोगो क साथ रहने से और उनकी अच्छी चीज़े सीखने से आप की खुबिया और निखरती हे और आप भी जल्दी ही उस पोजीशन पर होते हे ,जहा आप किसी और गाइड कर सके.
 i  am not the perfect one , who give you lectures , just try to share my views which i experienced in my life. rest i will talk tomorrow.
so just keep yourself calm and make yourself better.

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