TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS......EGO STATES.....STROKING AND LIFE POSITIONS....
HELLO,
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS :- Its a model of personality and the dynamics of ''self'' and its relationship with others.
Transact means to ''conduct, manage, execute and perform ''.
A transaction is an arrangement between human beings to give and take products and services from each other.
These transactions are physiological in nature and relate to how people behave and how other people behave with them in response to the behavior.
OR We can say that its related with your behavior ,your communication ,your attitude and how you use all these with communicate with others.
TO UNDERSTAND TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS WE MUST STUDY EGO STATES.....
EGO STATES :-
Ego states relate purely to behavioral age.
Ego states are unrelated to chronological age.
Ego states can change several times during transactions.
Ego sates guide human behavior.
Ego states cause victory and defeat.
3 TYPES OF EGO STATES ARE ***
* PARENT EGO STATES :
Its a set of feeling ,thinking and behavior that we have copied from our parents. As we grow up we take ideas, beliefs, feelings, manners and behaviors from our parents .
This is an adoptive role where people become authoritative , caring, controlling, advisory and sometimes bossy.
*ADULT EGO STATES :
The adult ego states is aware that the person has 'parents and children ' to look after responsibly. The adult ego states is about being spontaneous and aware with the capacity far intimacy.
This is a role of care,concern, respect, responsibility and maturity.
*CHILD EGO STATES :
The child ego states has the liberty of funloving and carefree behavior while being aware the adults and parents are watching over the behavior.
THE TRANSACTION DEMONSTRATES PEOPLE BEHAVING IN SPECIFIC BEHAVIORAL AGE GROUPS REGARDLESS OF THEIR ACTUAL AGE ....
FOR EXAMPLE ....WHEN CHILDREN BEHAVE LIKE DOCTORS IN A GAME , THEY MAY ADOPT THE BEHAVIOR OF EITHER PARENTS OR ADULT EGO STATES.
OR A GRANDPARENT BECOMES CHILD LIKE WHILE PLAYING WITH GRANDCHILDREN.
***STROKING AND LIFE POSITIONS :-
Physically one strokes others by shaking hands, clapping's , giving high-five, hugging , smiling and walking away .
Countless physical strokes are exchanged between people everyday and each stroke stimulates its own physical response.
Its A RECOGNITION OF OTHERS and its can be positive or negative .
RESPECTING ,PRAISING AND THANKING people are positive strokes while RUNNING PEOPLE DOWN , CRITICIZING AND IGNORING them are some negative stokes.
STROKING HAVE 4 LEVELS AND THIS IS CALL ED LIFE POSITIONS .
POSITIVE STROKES
I am OK (good) : you are Ok (good)
NEGATIVE STROKES
I am ok (good) : your are not ok (good)
You are ok (good) : I am not ok (good)
I am not ok (good) : You are not ok (good)
Many people only want positive strokes. say something nice to everyone you meet.
GIVE POSITIVE STROKES WHEREVER YOU GO AND VERY SOON POSITIVE STROKES WILL COME YOUR ON WAY TOO !
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS :- Its a model of personality and the dynamics of ''self'' and its relationship with others.
Transact means to ''conduct, manage, execute and perform ''.
A transaction is an arrangement between human beings to give and take products and services from each other.
These transactions are physiological in nature and relate to how people behave and how other people behave with them in response to the behavior.
OR We can say that its related with your behavior ,your communication ,your attitude and how you use all these with communicate with others.
EGO STATES :-
Ego states relate purely to behavioral age.
Ego states are unrelated to chronological age.
Ego states can change several times during transactions.
Ego sates guide human behavior.
Ego states cause victory and defeat.
3 TYPES OF EGO STATES ARE ***
* PARENT EGO STATES :
Its a set of feeling ,thinking and behavior that we have copied from our parents. As we grow up we take ideas, beliefs, feelings, manners and behaviors from our parents .
This is an adoptive role where people become authoritative , caring, controlling, advisory and sometimes bossy.
The adult ego states is aware that the person has 'parents and children ' to look after responsibly. The adult ego states is about being spontaneous and aware with the capacity far intimacy.
This is a role of care,concern, respect, responsibility and maturity.
The child ego states has the liberty of funloving and carefree behavior while being aware the adults and parents are watching over the behavior.
THE TRANSACTION DEMONSTRATES PEOPLE BEHAVING IN SPECIFIC BEHAVIORAL AGE GROUPS REGARDLESS OF THEIR ACTUAL AGE ....
FOR EXAMPLE ....WHEN CHILDREN BEHAVE LIKE DOCTORS IN A GAME , THEY MAY ADOPT THE BEHAVIOR OF EITHER PARENTS OR ADULT EGO STATES.
OR A GRANDPARENT BECOMES CHILD LIKE WHILE PLAYING WITH GRANDCHILDREN.
***STROKING AND LIFE POSITIONS :-
Physically one strokes others by shaking hands, clapping's , giving high-five, hugging , smiling and walking away .
Countless physical strokes are exchanged between people everyday and each stroke stimulates its own physical response.
Its A RECOGNITION OF OTHERS and its can be positive or negative .
RESPECTING ,PRAISING AND THANKING people are positive strokes while RUNNING PEOPLE DOWN , CRITICIZING AND IGNORING them are some negative stokes.
STROKING HAVE 4 LEVELS AND THIS IS CALL ED LIFE POSITIONS .
I am OK (good) : you are Ok (good)
NEGATIVE STROKES
I am ok (good) : your are not ok (good)
You are ok (good) : I am not ok (good)
I am not ok (good) : You are not ok (good)
Many people only want positive strokes. say something nice to everyone you meet.
GIVE POSITIVE STROKES WHEREVER YOU GO AND VERY SOON POSITIVE STROKES WILL COME YOUR ON WAY TOO !
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